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Reconcile with - when talking about reconciliation between two entities.
Germany was reconciled with England after the Second World War


Reconcile to - a forced decision as if no other option was there.
Tony eventually became reconciled to Mary's decision to sell her car, even though he now had to walk to work every day

 26/11/2014
 Use Laid up with not Laid down with...
Rohan was laid up with fever for last two days.